Wherever you are in life,
find new rhythms for intimacy
as you pursue God’s dreams together.
If you’re not connecting, you’re not communicating.
If you’re not communicating you’re not connecting.
Our goal is to get you connecting and communicating - only in this space can you grow, heal, and enjoy all that you dreamed you would have in the covenant of marriage - all that God has designed and desires you to have.
We must do intentionally after marriage what we did intuitively before marriage.
There are many reasons why your relationship may be struggling. Sometimes it’s practical tools, adjusting expectations, a lack of spiritual formation or unhealed areas from the past that keep popping up in your today.
Statistics reveal that about 80% of marital conflict is the result of things having happened to you before you ever met one another.
Statistics also reveal that 70% of all divorce is due to “soft issues.” No connection, a lack of shared interests, unresolved issues, failure to communicate at a heart level. Growing apart, not growing together.
Our passion is to help you get your relational circuits back on; connecting and communicating; clearing the rubble of old unresolved stuff - still hanging around (read the book of Nehemiah) keeping you from growing in love - and proactively creating the marriage you always dreamed of having.
Now is the time to invite us into your world, your space, your hearts, your marriage. Let us partner together with you and Holy Spirit for your marriage.
There is more.
Our invitation to you.
Embrace God’s Grace. The ability to do now what you couldn’t do before. Believe God for the More. Believe God for the miraculous. Believe God for an upgrade. Believe God for a Re-Ignite.
Take the next step. Reach out for partnership! We can’t wait to meet you and partner together with Holy Spirit and all that He has for you!
Our method in coaching couples.
We use a unique combination of healing prayer, coaching, and Kingdom counsel to both address areas of dis-connection and wounding, and equip you with practical tools that empower you to live pro-actively healed, healthy and whole.
Our sessions are 90 minutes. We have found that a standard hour session only allows time to get started and not move forward. Consider Re-Ignite Your Marriage for a more intensive ministry experience for your marriage.
We always give homework. Your journey is your joy and we partner with you in it. We won’t work harder on you than you’re working on you. BUT we’ll work as hard as you’re working!
It requires two committed people to create a wonder-full or filled relationship. Each person committed; each person growing: each person taking responsibility.
Together we’ll identify repeated patterns that prevent you from living connected and healthy. Explore what connection is and how to increase oneness, spirit, soul, and body.
Engaging with Holy Spirit for healing, revelation and prophetic insight are significant to our sessions and your healing journey.
You’ll learn tools for effective connection, communication, and reconciliation of painful unresolved areas of your marriage.
Using a DISC personality assessment is a great tool we often use to identify unique personality styles and understand differences that God has designed to be a gift of strength in our relationships.
Our audience.
Married couples. We’ve had the honor to partner with couples who have just married to couples married 50+ years!
Pastors and Leaders. Having been pastors we know the very real challenge of finding the support we needed in critical seasons of life and ministry.
Missionaries. The stress of living and ministering cross-culturally has a very real impact on the health of marriages and families. Serving as missionaries and raising our kids overseas - we understand the need for help from experienced healthy couples.
Divorced couples. Yes! We’ve had the honor of walking couples who were once married, divorced and exploring re-marriage.
Couples who are separated. Walking with couples in a season of separation into their next season has been been our greatest joy and grace!
Couples who are dating and exploring the future. We love going on this journey and exploring together what the Father has for them - while adding strength to their strength.
Engaged couples. We love to partner with couples in preparation for marriage. Check out our vision and options for this HERE.
We were blown away.
Aaron & Jamie Swart, North Carolina (www.MellowMondays.com)
From the first evening that we met with Steve and Lorraine they helped us see how real our problems were, but that nothing we were going through was beyond repair if we were committed to work on it. Each session they started out by asking Holy Spirit to come and pinpoint the areas of our heart that He wanted to help us walk through that night. They would tell us to be honest and talk about the good, the bad, and the ugly. We were both blown away at how much was in our hearts that God wanted to so gently touch, heal, and bring restoration to. Steve and Lorraine helped facilitate a safe and extremely productive environment for us to be vulnerable with them and watch the Holy Spirit transform our hearts. They facilitated inner healing for Aaron and I, which was life changing. Without that the same hurts and lies we believed would still be ruling our lives today.
One of the most special things was they to help facilitate what they call a “Heart to Heart” where Aaron could hear for the first time where I was coming from and vice versa. There was no yelling or thinking about the response we were going to make. We could hear for the first time the heart behind words being spoken. It was amazing. They gave us practical tools on how to “Do God” together. Every couple needs to experience what Steve and Lorraine bring to relationships and marriages.